What is ADHD and How do you live with it?
This post will be as “non” clinical as possible with some good behavioral management tips included as well. ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyper Activity Disorder. If you think that you or a family member may have ADHD keep reading! As this article is written for ordinary people it is full of generalizations.
If you lived through childhood with ADHD there is a real good chance that you have become a successful adult! Some of our greatest business men and women have ADHD. These are the idea people that can’t organize their desk or paperwork to save their lives. These are the people with tons of energy and who have a hard time speaking in complete sentences as they interrupt themselves with other great ideas. Attempting to follow their thought processes can give those of us who do not have ADHD a headache!
People with ADHD often say exactly what is on their minds and don’t have much of a filter that tells them that they may be hurting someone’s feelings, or are making statements that are outrageously politically incorrect. They are often revered as people who speak their mind. This trait in children looks like impulsive interrupting.
People with ADHD think they can accomplish a huge list of tasks in one day and greatly underestimate the time that it will take to complete just one item on the list. People with ADHD generally lose all track of time when they are engaged in pleasurable activities or those that capture their attention.
People with ADHD generally forget really important items on a more frequent than “normal” basis – like keys, cell phones, purses and brief cases. These folks are also known to start several tasks but finish only a few. Some people refer to folks with ADHD as “absent minded professor types”.
Women are more likely to have a type of ADHD that doesn’t include hyperactivity. These women have trouble staying focused on the task at hand and can easily slip into daydreams or attend to other thoughts circulating inside of their minds. Sometimes women with ADHD have accompanying anxiety problems that create excessive worry or fears.
Women may also have the hyperactive type of ADHD which usually includes excessive or rapid talking and difficulty adjusting to social cues in conversations. As a result of these problems they find it difficult to relate to other women and may find it easier to relate to men.
ADHD comes in many different varieties and those who think they might benefit from diagnosis and treatment should consult a mental health clinician or a Psychiatrist. General Doctors do treat ADHD but few specialize in helping to manage the disorder.
Behavioral management is the key to helping children live successfully with ADHD. Children have to be taught organizational skills and they must live by checklists to ensure they have their materials for school and extracurricular activities. Children with ADHD thrive in structured environments where the limits and boundaries for acceptable behavior are clearly established.
Parents who have children with ADHD need to take extra time to give instructions to their children for completing tasks. Eye contact should be made and instructions should be repeated back by the child. Parents need to establish time limits for task completion and help their child learn to manage time while performing tasks. Consequences for inappropriate behavior should be clearly outlined with a warning system in place to help the child self correct.
If you think your child has ADHD, you should also wonder if you or your spouse has the disorder. ADHD is genetic and there is a 50 percent chance that you or your spouse has ADHD if your child has the disorder.
Everyone has their quirks and most everyone has some type of “issue” they struggle with during their life time. ADHD is definitely NOT one of the worst problems to have! People with ADHD have extraordinary energy and when they get “stuck” in something they love to do, they can hyper concentrate for hours and produce outstanding work. These people also take risks and live life with extra spontaneity.
The best way to manage ADHD is to acknowledge that one has the tendencies or the disorder. Medication can help child in with concentration in school. Adults may benefit from medication as well.
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